Tuesday, August 16, 2011

Please Help Me...I don't know what this means?

I'm 14 years old, and as a young child I suffered with anxiety and as I grew up it turned into depression, I'm on medication and have been doing really great, but as I talked to a lot of people about it I started to realize something quite disturbing about myself: I love crying. I love the intense sadness that comes with it...for me, it's the most incredible and exhilarating feeling...I don't know exactly how to describe it; sometimes I just feel like crying (it's almost like getting high for me or something) so I play certain songs that I have deep connections with until the tears come. I don't know if I'm a psychopath or I just enjoy the familiarity of it, or what. I'm guessing this isn't normal, but what exactly should I do?

Which Smartphone should i Buy?

Im on my galaxy s right now and its amazing. Its like an improved itouch. I love it more then anything. Onlu problem is battery life, but trust me this phone is well worth it

What is your child's favorite T.V. show(s)?

Just wondering what other mommies have to suffer through! My 3 y/o daughter looooves Dora and Barney, which I don't mind because at least they are remotely educational but she also likes "fan boy and chum chum" so STUPID! But when she says "fat boy and shum shum" it cracks me up. My 6 y/o loves the movie mama mia *she is home sick from school today and if I have to watch that one more time I think I'll scream!

As long as we're confessing, I think I should tell you....?

I am happy that you two have finally 'fessed' up... Now one of you either needs to shave or grow a beard for the family portrait.

Do conservatives really want the economy to recover?

If the economy recovers under Obama's watch, he'll probably be re-elected, but if it doesn't recover, he probably won't be re-elected. Also, a bad economy gives the republicans a way to justify cutting social programs they don't like such as planned parenthood, social security, medi-care, student loans, etc. It also gives them an excuse to cut environmental programs, institutions, and laws they don't like cause they hurt corporate profits, such as the EPA, or laws curbing green house gases.

Baby is 5.5 months old and our relationship is still struggling. What next?

Greetings MAR, Congratulations on being a mum. I agree with Kathrync. I was in the same boat as you not too long ago, but I had to leave for 3 days to get my head together with my then 3 month old son. Men (Sorry, most me) dont notice things that us mums do unless they are pointed out to them. My partner thinks I watch TV all day or spend time on the laptop chatting. He doesn't realise that I cook, clean, wash his clothes, put his clothes away, vace, work in the garden and look after his son plus get tired due to being pregnant. I used to be a very patient person calm person, but after meeting him I turned into an angry monster, with alot of resentment. I had to give up my job to be a stay at home mum and then become his personal slave cos he is the one to 'bring home the beacon'. The only way things changed, and I do mean it changed drastically for the better was by me letting him know how I felt and the way I say things. I used to point out alot of the things he didn't do, but now I let him know in a calm manner how much help I need with day to day things and now I don't stress if not all the things I had planned to do don't get done. I make sure that I only do what is necessary and nothing more, which leaves more time for me to spend time with my son and also ME time. The less stressed I was the better and more relaxed we both were and then the intimacy followed, due to me being pregnant again..Lol... Men (Most men) don't know how to deal with their stress n emotions and take it out on those closest to them without realising it. If your calm and are more independant and show that ur copeing, then he will follow your lead. All the best and hang in there. The road ahead will be difficult but with determination from you, you will get there. God Bless.

How do i tear off the sides of my fireplace made of stone?

I want to leave the center fireplace there but remove the 6 ft. stone walls on both sides. This wall is in the center of my house and divides the living room from the kitchen. If i remove these two sides it will open up the area to have more of a great room affect. I dont know if it matters, but there is a fire place on the kitchen side as well but not a see through one. The stone does go from top to bottom and there is no seam on the livingroom side to cut away streight from the hearth.